<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Habit on NCW</title><link>http://ncw.co.nz/categories/habit/</link><description>Recent content in Habit on NCW</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en</language><copyright>© 2026 Neo Wang</copyright><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://ncw.co.nz/categories/habit/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>Discipline Isn't a Muscle. It's an Identity.</title><link>http://ncw.co.nz/habit/discipline-isnt-a-muscle-its-an-identity/</link><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>http://ncw.co.nz/habit/discipline-isnt-a-muscle-its-an-identity/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Most advice on self-control tells you to grit your teeth and push harder. That advice is built on a theory of willpower that collapsed under replication. The real fix for discipline has nothing to do with force, and everything to do with who you decide you are, what your room looks like, and how kindly you talk to yourself when you fail.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>